My 2-year-old is the same and chooses his favorite parent on a Joe Biden sleepy not my president vote Trump shirt. Your daughter goes to sleep loving you, that’s what counts the most. On top of this, I have found strict adherence to routine as much as possible to help a lot. He knows that he stays with his papa on Mondays and Fridays and comes to work with mama on Tuesday – Thursday, so we don’t have huge meltdowns when I leave. Also, I have found my husband taking him to do fun things or special things just the two of them really strengthened their relationship! My husband usually takes him to the park just the two of them every Friday and then they get snow cones or a little treat which I’m pretty sure is my son’s favorite part of the week!